How do you approach parenting your child?
An article from the New York Times is stirring up a lot of debate around this loaded question. The piece is titled, "Parents Should Ignore Their Children More Often" By Darby Saxbe, a clinical psychologist and professor of psychology at the University of Southern California.
The article discusses how in today's society, children are at the center of our attention and parents are constantly engaging and entertaining them. Parents can feel guilty if kids get bored doing mundane chores, so parents keep them preoccupied with "fun" kid stuff.
Saxbe suggests that parents do themselves and their children a service by doing less. In the article, the professor's lesson is to let children learn from watching and observing. If kids can learn to tolerate boredom, parents can raise patient, imaginative children.
KARE 11 Sunrise anchor and parent Alicia Lewis decided to look at the differences between "helicopter" and "free-range" parenting styles. Free-range is when parents take a hands-off approach.
Lisa Bunnage, a parenting coach who owns BratBusters Parenting, said most parents try to play the "Pleaser Parent" but there is a time and place for any parenting style.
"If we're at an airport, I'm a helicopter parent but if it's at school and they're having problems with the teacher, maybe they don't like a teacher or something and I just hands-off, you deal with it. I don't get involved in that."
If you're interested in learning more about parenting styles and the affect they can have on a child, here's an article from the Mayo Clinic that explains the four types: authoritarian, authoritative, permissive and neglectful.